SettleDown is the only dating platform with the focus on members finding someone to settle down with and build a life together. The platforms aims for the perfect harmony in lasting connections between the successful + capable male provider and their beautiful supportive partner. We are here to be the perfect tool to aid you in your search and help you meet your soul mate for your very own picture perfect romance. With thousands of members seeking the same thing, our dating environment is one that is ideal for those that seek serious relationships that last and commitment to that one special person.

Settle Down is free to female and trans members. Male members are required to purchase a subscription to unlock messaging and other unique premium benefits.

Members can get verified using any of our three in-depth verification tools. We are proud to be the only dating platform that has such a powerful verification system for all our members to enjoy and take advantage of. With us, scammers, bots, catfish, and fakes are a thing of the past.

ID Verification
The member can be verified with a clear photo of them holding their Valid ID or passport next to their face. For user privacy, this photo is not hosted on our servers and only reviewed by moderators.

Photo Verification
The member can be verified with a clear photo of them holding a piece of paper with the website name + their username on it by their face.

Video Verification
The member can be verified with a short 5 to 30 second video of them introducing themselves, waving hello, and saying "Message me on SettleDown dot com".

- No requests for sex or illegal activities
- No links, duplicate or copyrighted content
- No contact information, email, or social media
- No commercial or promotional content
- Photos must include your face
- Photos must be PG, no sexually explicit content
- Photos must not include children or minors

- Inappropriate profile photo
- Profile photo did not include your face
- Profile photo included contact info
- It hinted at offering commercial services
- Inappropriate username or bio

Please correct the issues relevant to your profile and try again with a more appropriate profile.

- Contact info and social media are not allowed
- Profile photos without faces are not allowed
- Sexually explicit photos are not allowed
- Do not cover your face more than 50% of your face

Your account may have been suspended due to suspicious activities. Being suspended means your profile still exists and its information and photos are saved but your account is completely disabled and hidden. Messages may still be sent to your account but cannot be accessed unless the suspension is reviewed and lifted by our support team. Reasons for suspension may include:

- Sexually explicit or vulgar language
- Sexually explicit content in your photos/bios
- Abusive conduct or abusive language
- Multiple reports by members about your profile
- Promoting/advertising a business

We have a zero tolerance policy for anything listed below so a second chance in the event you break any of the following terms is completely out the window.

- Using our platform to promote, solicit, or engage in prostitution
- Nudity, violence, or sexually explicit content in your photos/bios
- Scamming individuals for money
- soliciting passwords and other identifying info for unlawful purposes
- Creating a profile under the age of 18
- Absolutely anything involving people under the age of 18
- You have disputed a payment that appears as Aeon Tech LLC on your credit card statement

We reserve the right to suspend accounts for any reason we deem appropriate.

If you'd like to meet someone when moving, traveling, or vacationing somewhere, it's recommended you update your location field within your profile editor to your current location. This is important if you'd like to connect with members closest to you no matter where you are or traveling to.

Members can be easily be browsed by clicking the search icon in your header and the "Search" option in your mobile menu. If you're viewing the site on a mobile device, you'll need to click the "Filter" button to customize your search filter to your preferences.

You can easily block a user within their profile or within your conversation by clicking the "Block" option under the gear icon and you will never hear from them or see them again. If enough users block or report an inappropriate user or spammer, we will quickly suspend their account to evaluate the situation. In the odd event the user creates another account and continues to bother others, we will do our best to take advanced measures to get rid of them.

Yes, virtual gifts are a fun feature for generous and kind individuals wanting to make a another member's day with a cute online gift. The gift feature can be found inside your conversations and member profiles. You can send a gift anytime you come across a great profile or chat with a nice member on the platform.

Occasionally, some email providers may decide to mark your email notifications as spam. In the event your email notifications are being sent to your spam/junk folder, please add the sending email address to your contact list and mark the emails as "Not Spam" whenever you receive them. While adding our email address to your contact/white list will most likely do the trick, marking our emails as "not spam" will help avoid this from happening to you and other users in the future.

To reset your password, please head to our login page and click "Forgot Password". Enter the email attached to your account and submit the form. You will within 15 to 30 seconds receive an email notification to update your password. If you do not quickly see a password reset email, please check your spam/junk folder as occasionally, email providers may mark our emails as spam. You can help fight this by marking the email as "Not Spam" and adding our email address to your contact list.

Please use our contact form to send a detailed description of the issue you're having. Include the make and model of the device you're using to access the site, the Internet browser, which operating system (Windows, Mac, linux, iPhone, Android, etc.), and maybe a screenshot of the issue. If we can replicate your issue, we'll make it a top priority to fix it asap.

Trips are a very unique feature that allows you to post and browse trips, vacations, dates, and invites just as you would normally browse members. This feature is great for anyone that is open to finding their soulmate in other cities, states, or countries while also having fun traveling!

Browse Trips
Create a Trip

Subscribed members can use the Date Scheduler tool to remind other members of dates and trips planned together including small details such as the restaurant, location, and time. Think of it like a reminder note in your calendar. Both members will receive an event in their conversation and an email with the reminder details. This feature is of course only for convenience and not required in any way to use the proposal and trip features.

Members that are having a hard time receiving messages should first inspect their profiles. A well rounded profile includes a welcoming 500+ character bio, at least 4-8 high quality photos, and lots of fun interests. Beyond that, you can take advantage of our match/swipe feature and wink feature to get tons more eyes on your profile. If you're not the shy type, simply messaging other users you're compatible with is the easiest way to start connecting.

When a member wants to take a break from the platform, they can temporarily hide their profile by heading to their settings and toggling off "Discoverable profile". Whenever you return just toggle the feature on again. You can also deactivate your profile within your settings until you log back in if you'd also like to become hidden from anyone that you've had previous conversations with in your inbox.

If you really have to, you can delete your account by entering your profile or account settings and scrolling to the password panel. Under it you will see the "Delete Account" button. Click this button and confirm your password to permanently delete your account. You'll have to create a new account all over again if you'd like to return to SettleDown once you decide to delete your account. If you'd like to simply hide your profile from all members and searches, please head to your settings and toggle off the "Discoverable Profile" option and it will be as if your profile doesn't even currently exist.

Note: By permanently deleting your account, you understand you will lose any unused time left on your subscription. SettleDown states we do not provide refunds on any subscriptions packages.

Yes! If you enjoy the platform, please refer any local or international friends you think may be interested in joining SettleDown.

We encourage all members with an interest in writing fun and educational articles to consider writing articles with us on our popular blog. Topics include but are not limited to dating, settling down, relationship tips, travel, educational content, and anything entertaining for our engaged audience. All authors get full credit and a few links back to their profile on each published article.

At SettleDown we strive to provide users with the right tools to make informed decisions regarding who they seek dates and relationships with. We don't routinely perform background checks on anyone though we reserve the right to. Both parties should thoroughly screen each other before meeting and seize all communication with anyone they deem suspicious or attempts to engage in illegal activities. We want to build a trusted community for all members of the platform. To help ensure your safety, we ask everyone of ours users to report any misconduct, harassment, and suspicious or inappropriate activity.

Send us an email using our contact form or use our live chat feature and we'll answer all your questions in a timely manner.